Originally Posted by
fourmaggie 
wow..
moment there
can the self-centered addict change this behaviour...? *hummmm, thinking out loud*
That's pretty much what the Twelve Steps are designed to do. I'd say yes. Not to say all of them (or even most of them) do, but those who work a serious program do. Not with perfection, but most people slip into self-centeredness once in awhile...