You , guys are just great…….this is a great thread……..I want to be where some of you are so bad…..and I know that I will one day…….but I know that I have a long way to go…..I do realize that I cant control anyone but me…….and man am I hard to control………oh boy……..I am still working on controlling me……lol, I might be stuck here for awhile….but reading all the posts it gives me encouragement to continue on this journey……I am starting to realize when I am getting out of control a lot sooner……..and I am making a conscious effort to say, hey wait a minute…….you are doing it again…….and then I calm myself down so I don’t get completely out of control……I think I have learned that other people’s words are just words…….and they are their opinions and just because I don’t share the same opinion with them…..it is not my duty to convince them otherwise…….I gain nothing but two very frustrated individuals………I am going to try a new approach on things………