by Naive "in my experience, as time apart increased, i kindof forget how bad it was and then i missed him. honestly, after six months, i had forgotten much of it."
I have only been gone from my AH for 3 weeks, but I find myself volleying between forgetting and missing (as above) and intentionally making myself remember the horrible things I had been through. Then I am mad again...lol
It will be a wonderful day when I wake up and feel neither, just able to move on...
In reality, you have to ask yourself where your fear to move on comes from...
"There is no going back"
You haven't gone back for close to a year...that says alot..you are stronger than you give yourself credit for.
I have yet to remove my ring for the very same reason....It might become a reality....even though I have moved out and already am making it a reality...
This to shall pass? or can we move it along a little quicker by taking action...?