My alcoholic BF is super selfish as well. He never lets me watch what I want on tv. I have to sit through hours and hours of the golf channel or espn which he likes. Then i ask him to put on something that I like, he'll turn it on for me then go in the other room and use the computer and I would be there watching my show myself after I sat with him and watched the shows he liked for hours. Ive spent many nights going to bed myself because he stays up late drinking and chewing in the living room. Ive gone to many movies by myself on friday nights as well while he went to the the bar to get wasted. Sucks.