yes thats what i was saying although it has happened at christmas one of my daughters popped a few cans and i cringed everytime suppose in time it will go that fear cos only the exA behaved badly with drink ive never myself been tee total but also never had issues with beer cans opening its a matter of trusting the person your with isnt gonna call the cops on u or some other wierd drunk drama they seem to create i was ok though he has this very calming voice and never makes any drama out of anything and i was ok once he calmed me and we both had nothing more to drink that nite after that he just went and got me some water and kept making sure i was ok for rest of the nite.
Btw it wasnt our first chat suppose u could say been chatting to him since oct off and on it was i suppose first physical meeting in person and for me and him i feel it went ok just maybe like u all say try it with no drink next time
xxxkia