Life keeps throwing us the same lesson, again and again and agaaaain until we learn it.. *raises fist to the sky*.. curse yooou!
I'm with tjp. It's a big old red flag. I have a story very, very similar.. except my ex went so far as to make a profile, impersonate me and talk to a guy he was convinced I was going to or trying to hook up with, to catch him out. He didn't get the scoop he wanted.. not that that stopped him continuing to speculate.
His cracker factory is in full effect and churning out the nutty bars.. there is nothing you can say or do that is going to make a blind bit of difference.. unfortunately.
Tx