I have had other relationships in the past and none of them compared to my current relationship. I was never mentally or emotionally abused as much as with my current boyfriend so I can tell this is not normal. I am starting to understand that this is all him trying to unload his deamons onto me. He doesnt think normally because I feel like he's always so preoccupied with himself and his needs and wants. I need to sit down and think of how i'm going to break things off because its going to be hard for me and I'm sure hard for him.