I think I'd find another dating site. Why would you want to be on the same one he's on?
Alternatively, create a new profile, and remove your photo (you can always send it to someone if you are interested in him). That way you won't get any unwelcome "notifications".
Of course, you would still have to resist the urge to keep checking his profile...
BTW, the stuff in his profile is blatant manipulation on his part. He KNOWS you would see it.