Here's something I would like to share from my experiences being with an abusive, alcoholic man...
When you say no more and cut yourself loose from his grip, and you feel like you can finally breathe again, and suddenly life starts to come through for you, and you don't get sick or hurt anymore (I was always coming down with colds, insomnia, having minor accidents and bad things happen in general *often* when my AXBF and I were 'on') and when you just feel darn
wonderful without him around (or just the
thought of not having him around)...that's your cue that your better off.
I dumped mine today for I'm hoping the final time, and I feel fantastic.
Please come here as often as you need. There will be lonely times, there will be "I really want to call him" times, there will be "well I guess it wasn't *that* bad with him" times...and that's what this place is for! I hope to see you around more, twinkle.
