Hi Moose, I would love to join you. I feel I need to be lead through the steps. I realize I am powerless over my sons addiction but does that mean my life is unmanageable? I have a pretty busy life and seem to do Ok with it~~Except I have taken time away from my husband with all my worrying. Yup~~sounds like I have problems. Your post was a good one and has made me do some thinking here. Thanks~