Well I would not think an owner would lie about someone's drinking habits if he knew who she is. Not sure on that one because unless he does know her by sight then he could have been mistaken. I think it depends on the source of the information. If you want to reconcile but want to be sure she is not drinking I think you have to know these things. I also think that your gut always tells you and I am really trying to listen to mine now and not my AH.
So I will be thinking and praying for you.