Thanks Suki - words I needed to hear - you are so right about not having children ... it would be SO much more complicated. Like everyone else here ... wish there was a road map for this process!
We just talked about his drinking last night - he said he was "in a mood". He promised to call his sponsor and he promised to call me if he wanted to drink - nobody got phone calls. Nothing changes when nothing changes. Wish I had a dollar for everytime he said he would call ...
We talked about the trust issue - he hears it but I don't think he "gets" it. I would not tolerate that behavior from a friend or family member - I would not give them my time, trust or heart. Getting ready to break this crazy cycle of insanity ... life is too short.
Suki - LOVE your quote from the Eagles ... so true