But sometimes it feels like when I post certain things on these boards, people just start diagnosing "CODEPENDANT!! AHHH" to every thing you post.
I don't think anyone used the word codependent in this thread yet.
Anyway, I believe my sister is undiagnosed as a narcissist, I did not see it until she came to live with me.
She was abusing oxycontin, but also, looking for ways to get between me and my teenage daughter.
It did not end well. A court order to get her to leave, and her stupid boyfriend called my daughter and told her not to be such a bitch to me.
Incredible.
Now, when I look back when we were youngsters there was always something different about her. No sense of humor at all. Everything was about her.
I am sorry I cannot talk with her or see her. She is my sister. We grew up together with an abusive alcoholic father. We are comrades in arms. But, no longer. It is incredibly sad. But, I must leave her out of my life.
She is dangerously selfish.
Beth