As soon as I figured out what the whole fb thing was about -
I went straightaway and found my kids.
then I went right out
and found my ex (their father)
and BLOCKED him.
My settings specify
that only my friends can see my posts.
I blocked all my exes that I could find
family members
even that nasty hurtful slumlord I told y'all about.
No one - NO ONE
can get to me on fb without my knowing about it.
I keep pretty careful watch over the 'flavor' of posts as well ...
fb is sort of my mobile SR
and I keep that energy going in there, as well as I can.
without being totally anal about it - I am admittedly... vigilant about my fb.