And I think both BIL and AH have lost that filter in their mind. Or they use the excuse "only joking" yeah, like anyone but their alkie friends believes that.
BIL is always posting about which bar he's going to, how much he's had to drink that night, etc. And yet apologizes to my kids for not having Christmas presents for them(not that he has to give them anything, but he brings it up)
OMG, why have I stayed in this family for so long?