All of my close intimate relationships are a reflection of my relationship with her. Insecure, conditional love relationships. Now I find myself in a relationship with someone who actually is an alcoholic and I now see that my mother isn't so different from him. She just doesn't drink every day. The characteristics - all the same.
Codie -0
It takes some of us YEARS to get to this realization -
give yourself a great huge hug...
bake yourself a cake or something!
wow! talk about FAST
your handle should be something like ZOOMER or something!
"Whoosh"
YIKES!!!!!!! What a revelation! Have I completely gone off the deep end? If this is a correct assessment, then what do I do to fix myself????
I agree that Alanon might be just the thing
to get you started in the 3d aspect at the very least.
People in recovery are very ... connected.
THey're connected with other types of recovery,
other plans, paths, ideas, theories...
as well as government assistance and well-
just a world - a culture -
that most of us have no idea exists until we're in need of it.
I'd give that a try first if I were you.
congratulations!
Now youi're going to see it everywhere.
For me -
it even determined whether I thought a boss was a 'good' boss
or a tv character was a 'favorite'
you're going to be amazed!