tjp~~you are so right. The only phone call I want is the one saying he is ready for rehab. He is not getting his hands on any money and thats all there is to it. I'm sure hoping I wake up in a better state of mind tomorrow. Its been rough today but we are not backing down at all. What do you say we all meet for a SR Cruise.....wouldn't that be fun?? Thanks alot. You all make me feel a little better