pennywistle;2836121]Abuse is abuse, no matter how you slice it, whether there's alcohol involved or not- it's the same. And trying to rationalize or figure out someone's drunken behavior is a dead end.
Drunks always have their finger pointed in the opposite direction. It can be the other person in the room, to the clerk at the grocery store, to the mail man; someone else other than them is really messed up and at fault for everything.
That's true! Although I wasn't a mean drunk, I was more of "need to listen to loud music" drunk, as things progressed and it got worse, I even got mad at the check out lady at Publix grocery store.