To tell you the truth~ I know I can't manipulate him at all. I really don't want to contact him. I'm glad alot of you have suggested just turning it off. Thats just what my hubby said just turn it off!!! looks like thats whats going to happen here. I do need to step away and let him fall all the way withoput me interferring. He is already mad at us for taking his business truck away. We just couldn't have him driving around. I love you guys. I just don't know what I'm afraid of?? Its time.