Is it really necessary to let him know that you're turning off the phone or do you think he'll figure it out when the phone doesn't work anymore? Or is it just a reason to be in contact with him?
I agree with kindeyes, think about WHY you want to contact him to let him know you are turning off the phone. Is it a reason to contact him, is it one last big hope for a change in him? Investigate your own motives, because when I began to investigate my motives they still were falling into the manipulation, guilt trip, trying to control categories. I seemed to always be setting myself up for dissapointment.
I’m glad you are posting, glad you are here.