i am typing wth 1 hnd in sling so bear w abbrvs..
i did not let my daughter know that her phone was going 2 b turnd off..it was a given when i had told her if u relapse u will b on ur own...i didnt want to make it easier in ant way 4 her 2 live the life..phones r used2 get drugs...imho u owe no explantion and do not need 2 give a courtesy call that wuld break nc and open the door 4 drama..he will figure it out quikly..hang in there...been there..no fun