Thanks Tuffgirl, love your moms saying! I noticed your in Anchorage, my AH's brother, who is also a drunk, lives there too, always in trouble, maybe he knows your AH?! LOL Well, anyway, quick update as of last night. On Mon. when I packed his things and put everything into his car at work, I was driving the nice newer car we have and he was using the old beater car back and forth to work. well, sometime last night, he came here and switched cars(he had extra set of keys on his keyring)I guess now that he's single and ready to mingle he needs to have the nice car, and I get the high mileage car that shakes, and smells like gasoline. Oh. well. at least it doesn't smell like vodka and call me names!