My son just relapsed for the third time. He was doing so well and he fooled us all. This time I am backing away, haven't talked or seen him in 6 weeks and just pray that alone he can face his addiction without the help from family. I'm only praying we are doing the right thing. I fear so many avenues but nothing we have done in the past has worked. I have heard so many times.....step away from the addict! And, thats what we're doing. I just wish the bottom would hurry up and happen.