My ABF is absolutely in that letter.
At first glance, I didn't see me, but removing the woman's behaviors and actions and substitute in the intents behind the actions, and I'm hiding there, too.
It really is a toxic relationship. He can be so sweet when he wants to be (to lure me back) but the entire relationship was never about two grown people in the first place - even when it was about me it was all about him.