Old 07-28-2004, 02:47 AM
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Originally Posted by Birddog
I find it offensive that somebody would get so upset over a bookmark to a girlie website, come on.
Birddog try role reversal. Try to see it as how you would act if it was happening to you.
Wife spends 2 hours at the computer looking at other guys on line. When you go out to dinner, you see her eyes google at every guy who walks by. You get home with hopes of some thing happening when you go to bed and she says....Not tonight. I don't feel like it or says... Well OK! if we have to. Fakes sleep so she doesn't need deal with your asking.
May not bother you once or twice or may bother you the very first time.
Think of how you would feel after a month of such.
If one bookmark is ok, why not 10? How about a home page that takes you direct when you turn on the computer?
It isn't so much my actions but how my actions affect those around me that would make them improper in a marriage.
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