Him: "I quit drinking when you said you had a problem!" (I didn't ask him to, he said he would...but didn't)
Me: "But you DIDN'T quit!"
Long pause...
Him: "Well...I cut back!"
HAHAHAHAHA!
Him: "I don't need to drink. I can do whatever I want. I don't need it.
Me: "You started up just as regular when I left."
Him: "Yah, well, I can do whatever I want and you weren't there!"
Him: "I'll do anything you want! I never said I wouldn't go to therapy! Just come home!"
Me (months later): "Okay, will you go to a counselor that specializes in addiction issues?"
Him: "Hell, no! "
Me: "You said you'd go to therapy."
Him: "I said I'd go to therapy WITH you, but since you're not here...I never said I'd go to a therapist alone!"
Me: "Don't you remember saying you'd do anything I want?"
Him: "No!"
Therapist: "Your wife says there are some things you have trouble talking about. Is there anything you feel uncomfortable talking about?"
Him: "Nope."
Therapist: "So there is...NOTHING you feel uncomfortable about?"
Him: "No, nothing."
Me (later): "You were full of it. Why would I go to therapy with you if you are just going to blow smoke?"
Him: "I so was not full of it...I don't remember exactly what I said...I'm not a big fat liar...well, if I said that, I was talking about my INTENT."
(Dear lord, help me!)
I could go on for days...
