perspective...
As a teen I heard these words that later in life helped me find perspective.....
" what's the big deal it is all just skin" words came from a well endowed girl who was being goggled over by one of the guys in the group. I think those words were a major part of me finding the internet porn stuff boring in short time.
My becoming a Christian, my looking inside self, my finding how selfish I was, my seeing that the steps do work and using them...
A realization that I needed change is the only thing that allowed change in me.
Be it sex, porn, alcohol, drugs, selfish behavior.... Till the one who needs change comes to the realization that they need change.... nothing will change.
Boundaries for our own well being. Changes in ourselves as we interact with others.
We can't control others, we can control our own perspective and do what we need do for self.
Stand firm, hold my ground and not let others cause stress in me.
Learning as I go, as I hope all others are as well.
and yes porn is wrong