(((WIWorrier))) - we A's are very resourceful. I ran from the cops for quite a while...many times a day. Just because he has his own car, doesn't mean he's going to be WITH that car (we rent them out for dope), so you're husband's cousin is likely to get duped, and possibly put his job on the line.
I wouldn't have gotten into recovery, if my family had enabled me. Most likely, I'd be dead...just as my XABF is, from the addiction we shared (crack, and whatever else came along). There are far too many parents here, who have had their child OD in their homes, or close by.
I'm grateful my family said "enough..we love you but we're not going to tolerate this" and I was allowed to hit bottom, and find my way back up. My recovery is mine, but I owe a lot to the people who refused to enable me.
Hugs and prayers,
Amy