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Old 01-13-2011, 02:52 PM
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Verbena
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Originally Posted by Tally View Post
I don't believe in unconditional love any more. Maybe that between a parent and child comes closest but even with that relationship there must be a line somewhere...
I agree.

I think the whole Cinderella story gets us into big trouble because it sets us up for unrealistic expectations. People are people are people. We make mistakes.

There's choice involved with a mature loving relationship. I think the romance novels and chic flicks lie about that more often than not.

Happily ever after is a myth even in good marriages.
As a happily married friend of mine put it, "Friends forever can work." Friends learn to compromise, negotiate and accept that they can disagree on certain issues without destroying the relationship.
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