My answer is Yes! It is possible! We were juniors in high school when we fell in love. After graduating he had a bad accident at work and was messed up pretty bad. I still loved him scared up and all. If the alcohol was replaced and it was another disease such as cancer or bipolar even if he were paralyzed I would still love him just the same. So now this has me questioning myself….. Am I codependent or just guilty of loving too much?