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Old 01-13-2011, 09:58 AM
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I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
Originally Posted by sailorjohn View Post
Someone here mentioned the fact that a lot of pop culture presents some very unhealthy fantasies. The implication of that quoted statement, that a person is somehow 'less than' without that 'special' other.
I think that depends on how you read it.
One could read it as "I love you not only for what you are but for the fact that I can completely and utterly be myself when I am with you" -- that's the only relationships I care about in my new life, the ones where I don't have to put on a mask or pretend to be something I'm not. Where I'm allowed to be all that I am, good and bad, whether I'm alone or with someone.
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