[QUOTE=nodaybut2day;2827829]QUOTE] my one child does really well in the classes where they do not have to interact too much, ie. math and science, i think that is great, a couple other classes may be a task because some interaction is required and she is somewhat shy. On the other hand, they are being taught by males and i can't tell if it has to do with her inability to relate to them as teachers-becoz of her A dad, or what is going on. She has sung in front of crowds before, so i am not sure what it is. i try to encourage her to do things but she is just way too shy, plus she is at the stage where her body is changing, and she is also one of the youngest in her class. I am thinking if I take her out at least for a few years to get her up to par with the other stuff she struggles with and maybe get some self confidence with her womanhood. I may be also thinking in the small town we are from, that there may be a stigma because of her name and the alcoholic association with it.