teendoc,I have had some what of a problem like you had. My husband and internet porn. 19 months ago...the police showed up at our house...searched it for porn..arrested my husband..took him to station. They took the computer..which we did not get back!!! My husband was released and gave a caution. I am still shocked and upset by this stituation. It is so embarassing.....humiliating to have some strangers going through all your personal belongings..while I am sitting in the living room,with the team leader police. I am in my pjs...and I am in a stunned,shocked state. Took them three hours to complete their search. My husband is now on a register list for the next five years and he has to report to the police every time he moves or stays gone more then three days from home. He can't visit the United States because he can't stay out of this country more then 7 days. So all I can say is...I hate internet porn. Lock your computer..do whatever it takes...unless you want to take a chance with the police paying you a visit and taking your computer. I will never get over this. My husband won't admit he has any type problem. But believe me he does. Today is my fifth wedding anniversary and I am wanting to be back in the United States...but have nothing back there to come back to. My age,no job..all play a big part in my decisions. Will suffer it out here. One good thing is this computer is mine...and its LOCKED!!
I'm not asking for anyone to feel sorry for me...just trying to get a point across. Don't let him play games with you. You will be the one in the end to get HURT!!