teendoc, It sounds like you and I are in the same boat. My AH is also addicted to internet porn. I somehow ended up with 112 viruses on my computer and had to spend $70 for software to destroy them. I have forbid him to use my computer and believe me I check everyday! I don't know what's wrong with them. It seems like they always have to be addicted to something. It's bad enough he has the drinking on the weekends, but now the porn. I work nights so his excuse is "Well you're not here so I have to do something". Why can't he just watch tv and go to bed like a normal human being?!!
I don't know why I stay with him either except that when he's sober, he's a great person. It's the drunk that I can't stand. Why is it that we are the ones who have to do all the trying to make our marriages work? I thought marriage was supposed to be an equal partnership. Mine seems pretty one sided and I really don't see him doing anything to make it any better. I guess some day when we are ready and get enough courage we will leave. I just keep hoping that better days are coming. Hang in there and stick with this forum. There's alot of people out there that really understand and care.