Thanks for the welcome everyone! I love all the responses. So many good points. I don't know that I was so overly contious before I was married. I just know that now in what ever situation I feel like I constantly have to weigh out the pros and cons before I can decide what I'm going to do. I just wish for once I could throw caution to the wind and do something with out thinking twice.
I love the thought of getting organized. WHen I was married the one thing that I could control was my disorganization. I knew he hated it. After the divorce, while Im nowhere near as bad I could definitely use some tiding around here. I would feel like I was doing something for myself I guess.