I'm glad to be clearer on the circumstances, myself.
WHen I read this thread this morning,
of course I whipped out a 'classic barb dwyer who*p a**" kind of thing.
and posted it.
then I thought -
'you're being harsh - you haven't even had your coffee yet'
so I deleted it and agreed with naive.
I'm glad I listened to that inner voice.
saved much face with that one.