Kristin - I just read over your old posts. I urge you to go to al-anon as soon as possible. I urge you to not move in with this man until you have some more time to see how things are going to play out. Honestly, if he isn't going to be moving into the new house soon, I would ask him to leave. You will be having a baby soon and this is going to add stress and he doesn't sound like a person that handles stress well. You do not need an alcoholic also using narcotics around you and your new baby. This is a time you will need peace and security in your life. Do what you need to do to get peace, safety, security. The rest will sort itself out in time.