Originally Posted by
goldengirl3 
Hahahahah! That made me laugh out loud.
yes ladies and gentlemen mine agreed to go to ONE, just one counseling session and then he quit. Once the subject of the drinking came up, my counselor's attitude changed and my ex knew he didn't want to quit and I'm certain that's why he didn't want to return.
Glad I could make you laugh! My counselor said he wanted to see us each individually first. I went first, and after I told him my ex wouldn't look for a steady job (it had been five years), he was at the bar every night, developing a worsening coke habit, was a compulsive gambler, watched porn all day long and that I was supporting the family but was falling behind due to his habits and cracking up cars and whatnot, the counselor said he didn't think there was much hope for the marriage. I asked him to please give my husband a chance and made an appointment for him. Husband just didn't go to the appointment.
By the way, my husband's take on our marital problems was that all would be well if I would just dress up in sexy lingerie and dance for him once in a while.
From the distance of years I can now just LAUGH.