I guess I was forward looking and with my husband I am backward looking
That is really good. Thought provoking. We can also see and feel the safety net. Not so at the top of the diving board.
It takes courage to stop second guessing.
It takes courage to stop hoping and wishing.
It takes courage to accept things as they are.
It takes courage to let go.
I don't know. I have to be honest and admit that those things did not really happen for me until after I left. I don't really recommend that route - would have been better and probably less crazy making to get all that in order first - I just didn't do it that way. I didn't know how and still don't. It may have something to do with not having a hp or not trusting in a hp??