Hugs Michelle70. It's hard to know what to do. I did not leave when AH decided to get sober.....and it's still hard. Ah is in a spot where he really thinks that just by being sober for the past few months that he's made good on the past few years. If you're done and you know it, don't waste the next X number of months/years waiting to see if it gets better or your feelings change.