Benders
I have a question about benders. My ex always did this but I never realized there was a name for it until I found this board. As his alcoholism progressed, he drank to excess everyday. Yet he would still occasionally do these "benders." I guess I'm a little confused. Even though he was drinking a ton, I take it he was still drinking even more on a bender? It seemed like a lot of this was tension to hang out with drinking men more than just getting drunker but I'm not sure.
Anyone else care to share?