Hi Rhode, I asked you a question on your last thread that I don't think you answered. I asked because in my experience there
are things you can do to help your wife with this problem but what they are depends on what stage she is at. This was the question;
What does your wife actually want? Do you think she is at a place where she actually does want to stop drinking but is not sure how to or is she quite content with her drinking and just paying lip-service to you about quitting in order to get you off her back? It's hard to tell the difference between the two as she will be saying similar things either way, but what does your gut tell you?