Oh man. I remember when I realized that "going to a meeting" was just an acceptable way to get out of the house to indulge in debauchery. It took forever for me to learn that each knock-down, drag-out, "I-have-a-problem-and-I'm-going-to-get-help" episode was only the preface to my AH getting craftier and finding better ways of hiding his active addictions (which grew in number with each passing year).
I'm not going to flame you because I stayed with my AH straight down through bankruptcy. I used to use the excuse that I couldn't make it financially without him. Then I realized what was REALLY going on and that in reality, I couldn't make it financially WITH him. It sounds like your AH isn't in active recovery and that his addictions are progressing. I certainly don't recommend the bankruptcy path...if its any help.