He has been lying about meetings, started gambling
I am still w/o Internet (!!!)
so I am writing on my phone.
A has been dodging a few money questions, I argue w him abt it, finally he admits he had started to go to the casino.
Gambling runs in his family, and he said he knows it is a potential issue. I asked him if he had discussed it w anyone at meetings, and he admitted that he has not really been going as often as he says...
He now feels that the stress of arguing abt money and my behavior are what is causing him to falter...(quack)
I'm sorry to be so bleak, but what a f$&@Ed up family... On one side they all drink and on the other gambling. Is there no end??
I am not accepting his projections, and x mas and whatever was great, but this explains my "postponed" gift( he gave me a few others, but said one would have to wait).
The projecting just gets so bad when he messes up. He is unaccountable, so I guess he feels someone has to take the blame.
Yeah. I know. He has to go. He will surely drink if I put him out right now, with new years ,etc... I don't want my life ruined by gambling after all this crap.
Go ahead, flame me, be harsh. I might not be done w him yet, but I think I am getting closer.