The Art of Staying Calm. I like that. Good for you Kindeyes. I remember when my AS first moved back into our home with his pregnant girlfriend. The first time I woke up to find strangers in my home, watching my TV and doing God knows whatelse. I wish I had thrown them out. After all, if they did not do what they do, they would have their own homes for entertaining and they could have whoever they want spend the night. But because if their poor decisions, they do not have their home.
You made the right decision. Stay calm.