No. Not if she's an alcoholic. That's the disease.
what do you want in a relationship? What kind of a person do you want raising your children? If what you have is acceptable to you (binge drinking included in the package), than so be it. If not then you need to change yourself. Because you can't change your wife.
You only get to control your own choices in this life. Maybe don't focus on what your wife's limits SHOULD be, and focus on your own limits. What are they?