Thank you. Yes, this is MY home, not his. I left with the kids back in September, we are not married. He could not stay in the other place. He was staying with me "until he got on his feet" which still hasn't happened. He is on job #3 since September and this one won't end any differently. I am having a hard time seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Thumper-how long before he finally left?
Wicked-thank you for the AlAnon pep talk. Actually, I think most of my anxiety lies in the fact that my mom will be coming to stay with the kids, and since I am 101% sure that he will not have left MY HOME on his own, that he will throw a fit that she needs to be there with them.
Thumper, I have considered calling the police, and I suppose that I will if he starts in. It just makes me sick, all of it. I don't recall the day that I gave someone else carte blanche over my life.