I don't post here so much because I find it very hard to not make my posts sound very "smug." My husband is doing great, our marriage is fantastic, things went back to (better than) normal very quickly once he stopped drinking. It's not perfect, we've had other setbacks and we are still working out day to day practicalities in a way that normal couples don't have to, but we are getting there.
Also, I don't want to jinx things by being too positive. We've had the best Xmas in years and a significant part of me is just waiting for the other shoe to drop. And if/when this new way of us being becomes normal I suspect I'll stop coming on to this site. I already log-in much less than I used to and in time I probably won't at all, because I want to move on, completely.