so now he is dragging the kids into the "crap"....ooh brother..not good....please try AL ANON...can you get someone to watch the kids for 1 1/2 hours?....when YOU are sick and tired, you will get the nerve to do something...but in the mean time...be patient, and listen to your Higher Power...think things through...like leaving?kicking him out? Al anon may help you. Please dont do anything hasty THIS TAKES TIME.....
watch your money...listen for the lies...the manulipations...
but remember this:
the three C's
1. You did not cause this
2. You can not control this
3. You can not cure this
he is gonna want to do this for himself....
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