Welcome to the SR family StarCat!
Is there a Domestic Violence program in your area?
Please reach out to them for resources of temporary shelter, counseling and other resources in your area.
The verbal assaults, manipulation, anger, and violence are all forms of abuse.
You are important and your life matters.
Please make yourself home here by reading and posting as much as needed. Reading through the sticky (permanent) posts at the top of this forum helps me with insight based on other memebers experiences. Some of our stories are posted there as well as loads of wisdom.
I hope you will be able to continue attending Alanon meetings in the near future.
Today, please reach out to your communities domestic violence office and get some immediate shelter.
Alcoholism is progressive and your partners condition is getting markedly worse. Protect yourself.
We are here to support you. You are not alone.